"I just wish I could understand my father"
About this Quote
In Jackson’s public story, fatherhood isn’t a warm backdrop; it’s a battleground. Joseph Jackson was cast, by Michael and by much of the culture, as the architect of both the Jackson 5 miracle and the trauma behind it: punishing rehearsals, control, fear, the idea that love was conditional on performance. So "understand" becomes code for "make the harm intelligible". It’s a plea to find motive where there may only have been ambition, poverty, and a ruthless belief in what success required.
The subtext is negotiation. If he can understand his father, he can keep the success without inheriting the cruelty, keep the family narrative without being swallowed by it. It’s also the paradox of child stardom: the world applauds the product while the kid still wants a parent. Coming from Jackson, the line reads like a private thought that accidentally summarizes his whole mythology: brilliance built on damage, and the lifelong effort to translate damage into something you can live with.
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| Topic | Father |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jackson, Michael. (2026, January 18). I just wish I could understand my father. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-wish-i-could-understand-my-father-851/
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Jackson, Michael. "I just wish I could understand my father." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-wish-i-could-understand-my-father-851/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I just wish I could understand my father." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-just-wish-i-could-understand-my-father-851/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.






