"I never make the mistake of arguing with people for whose opinions I have no respect"
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Gibbon’s line is less a civility lesson than a declaration of intellectual border control. It reads like a maxim for polite society, but its real charge is exclusionary: argument is not a democratic right, it’s a privilege granted by the arguer. He isn’t saying disagreement is pointless; he’s saying some minds don’t qualify as destinations for his time. The wit comes from the inversion of what “mistake” usually means. Most people misstep by getting heated; Gibbon claims the error is dignifying certain opinions with engagement at all.
The subtext is pure 18th-century hierarchy, dressed in Enlightenment tailoring. In the coffeehouse era of pamphlets, salons, and fierce theological-political dispute, reputation and reason were currencies. To “argue” wasn’t just to talk, it was to confer status: you treat someone as capable of being persuaded, or at least capable of persuading you. Refusing to argue becomes a way to protect one’s intellectual brand and to keep the conversation inside a self-selected republic of the credible.
As a historian who anatomized institutions and belief systems with surgical skepticism in The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire, Gibbon knew how debates are often theater: people use controversy to launder certainty into authority. The aphorism therefore doubles as self-defense and subtle aggression. It advertises composure while implying contempt. The danger, of course, is that “no respect” can become a convenient veto, a way to avoid the discomfort of being challenged. Gibbon’s elegance makes that dodge sound like virtue.
The subtext is pure 18th-century hierarchy, dressed in Enlightenment tailoring. In the coffeehouse era of pamphlets, salons, and fierce theological-political dispute, reputation and reason were currencies. To “argue” wasn’t just to talk, it was to confer status: you treat someone as capable of being persuaded, or at least capable of persuading you. Refusing to argue becomes a way to protect one’s intellectual brand and to keep the conversation inside a self-selected republic of the credible.
As a historian who anatomized institutions and belief systems with surgical skepticism in The Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire, Gibbon knew how debates are often theater: people use controversy to launder certainty into authority. The aphorism therefore doubles as self-defense and subtle aggression. It advertises composure while implying contempt. The danger, of course, is that “no respect” can become a convenient veto, a way to avoid the discomfort of being challenged. Gibbon’s elegance makes that dodge sound like virtue.
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