"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself"
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Lawrence aims a cold, bracing rebuke at one of modernity's favorite indulgences: self-pity dressed up as sensitivity. The sentence is built like a moral fable, but it refuses the usual sentimental payoff. Instead of elevating the wild as cute or noble, he makes it terrifyingly clean. A bird freezing to death is not a Hallmark image; it’s nature’s indifference rendered in miniature. The point isn’t that animals are wiser in some Disney sense. It’s that they don’t have the luxury of narrating their pain into an identity.
The subtext cuts both ways. On one hand, Lawrence is attacking a culture of inwardness - the self as perpetual project, injury as autobiography. “Sorry for itself” implies a second layer of suffering: not just hurt, but the story we tell about being hurt. Lawrence wants to strip that story away, to recover a more elemental posture toward life: endure, respond, move. On the other hand, the line carries a faint cruelty, even a dare. If a bird can die without self-pity, what excuse do you have? That’s the provocation, and it’s meant to sting.
Context matters: Lawrence wrote against what he saw as the deadening effects of industrial society and overcivilized morality. He distrusted the mind’s tendency to detach from the body, to substitute analysis and grievance for lived sensation. The frozen bird becomes his icon of unsentimental vitality - not because it survives, but because it doesn’t turn suffering into self-absorption.
The subtext cuts both ways. On one hand, Lawrence is attacking a culture of inwardness - the self as perpetual project, injury as autobiography. “Sorry for itself” implies a second layer of suffering: not just hurt, but the story we tell about being hurt. Lawrence wants to strip that story away, to recover a more elemental posture toward life: endure, respond, move. On the other hand, the line carries a faint cruelty, even a dare. If a bird can die without self-pity, what excuse do you have? That’s the provocation, and it’s meant to sting.
Context matters: Lawrence wrote against what he saw as the deadening effects of industrial society and overcivilized morality. He distrusted the mind’s tendency to detach from the body, to substitute analysis and grievance for lived sensation. The frozen bird becomes his icon of unsentimental vitality - not because it survives, but because it doesn’t turn suffering into self-absorption.
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| Source | Evidence: im sorry he said but he did not sound sorry he told himself easily she will come round and she did he told his mother about the fall of mr jordan and the trial of Other candidates (2) D. H. Lawrence (David Herbert Lawrence) compilation98.8% h censors 1929 i never saw a wild thing sorry for itself a small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough without ever... The Complete Poems of D.H. Lawrence (David Herbert Lawrence, 1994) compilation97.3% David Herbert Lawrence. Frieda were back in Europe and his publisher's invitation to collect ... I never saw a wild t... |
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