"I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision... is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive"
- Barbara Deming
About this Quote
This quote by Barbara Deming is advocating for a shift away from the conventional method of determining and targeting enemies, and rather concentrating on the oppressive behavior that they are engaging in. This is an idea that is familiar to the nonviolent tradition, which is based upon the idea of tranquil resistance and non-cooperation with overbearing forces. By shifting the focus away from the private or group that is engaging in oppressive behavior, and instead concentrating on the behavior itself, it enables us to hold to our vision of a more just and equitable society. This technique also enables us to stay concentrated on the goal of developing a much better future, rather than getting captured up in the cycle of retribution and violence.
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