"Just in our lifetime our society has become looser and more private, it becomes extremely difficult to hold to any permanent commitment whatever, least of all to organized religion"
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Douglas is diagnosing a cultural physics problem: when the social fabric slackens, institutions that depend on shared pressure lose their grip. The line has the cool, clinical snap of an anthropologist who’s watched “commitment” move from public duty to private preference. “Looser and more private” isn’t just mood music about modern life; it’s a structural claim. As ties of neighborhood, class, and church thin out, the mechanisms that once made promises stick - gossip, reputation, routine, mutual reliance - stop doing their quiet coercive work.
The subtext is that belief is rarely a solitary act of pure conviction. Organized religion, in Douglas’s framing, is less a set of metaphysical propositions than a social technology: it requires regular attendance, visible affiliation, and a thick web of obligation. Privacy, often celebrated as liberation, becomes an acid bath for those communal reinforcements. When faith is pushed into the realm of “personal spirituality,” it can be intense yet fragile, unaccountable, easily revised - a commitment that can be redesigned like a playlist.
Context matters: Douglas built a career arguing that institutions shape how we categorize the world and manage risk. Read through that lens, her point isn’t nostalgic scolding so much as a warning about what happens when commitment is treated like an optional subscription. Permanent vows - religious, marital, civic - rely on a culture willing to make people somewhat legible to each other. Modernity’s promise of autonomy delivers real freedoms, but it also starves the very conditions that make “permanent” more than a romantic word.
The subtext is that belief is rarely a solitary act of pure conviction. Organized religion, in Douglas’s framing, is less a set of metaphysical propositions than a social technology: it requires regular attendance, visible affiliation, and a thick web of obligation. Privacy, often celebrated as liberation, becomes an acid bath for those communal reinforcements. When faith is pushed into the realm of “personal spirituality,” it can be intense yet fragile, unaccountable, easily revised - a commitment that can be redesigned like a playlist.
Context matters: Douglas built a career arguing that institutions shape how we categorize the world and manage risk. Read through that lens, her point isn’t nostalgic scolding so much as a warning about what happens when commitment is treated like an optional subscription. Permanent vows - religious, marital, civic - rely on a culture willing to make people somewhat legible to each other. Modernity’s promise of autonomy delivers real freedoms, but it also starves the very conditions that make “permanent” more than a romantic word.
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| Topic | Faith |
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