"Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here"
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The subtext is where it gets sharp. “Born with” borrows the authority of biology and innocence; it implies purity, a pre-social self. “Learned here” drags fear out of the realm of instinct and pins it to environment: family scripts, media cycles, school discipline, political messaging. That last word, “here,” is doing heavy work. It’s not just Earth, or society, or adulthood; it’s the whole training ground of modern life, where attention is monetized and threat is a reliable adhesive. Fear, in this framing, isn’t merely an emotion but a curriculum.
Contextually, Williamson sits in the late-20th-century American spiritual self-help tradition (with New Age and A Course in Miracles DNA), but the line has endured because it travels well in the age of anxiety. It reads like a personal mantra and a cultural diagnosis. The genius is its simplicity: two short sentences, two origin stories, one implied choice. If you accept the premise, you’re already halfway to the prescription.
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| Topic | Love |
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Williamson, Marianne. (n.d.). Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/
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Williamson, Marianne. "Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/.
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"Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











