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"Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here"

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Williamson’s line is a little velvet hammer: it lands softly, then rearranges the furniture. By treating love as the default setting and fear as an acquired habit, she flips the usual moral narrative where fear is “natural” and love is the risky leap. The intent is persuasive and therapeutic at once: if fear is learned, it can be unlearned; if love is native, you don’t have to earn it, just return to it.

The subtext is where it gets sharp. “Born with” borrows the authority of biology and innocence; it implies purity, a pre-social self. “Learned here” drags fear out of the realm of instinct and pins it to environment: family scripts, media cycles, school discipline, political messaging. That last word, “here,” is doing heavy work. It’s not just Earth, or society, or adulthood; it’s the whole training ground of modern life, where attention is monetized and threat is a reliable adhesive. Fear, in this framing, isn’t merely an emotion but a curriculum.

Contextually, Williamson sits in the late-20th-century American spiritual self-help tradition (with New Age and A Course in Miracles DNA), but the line has endured because it travels well in the age of anxiety. It reads like a personal mantra and a cultural diagnosis. The genius is its simplicity: two short sentences, two origin stories, one implied choice. If you accept the premise, you’re already halfway to the prescription.

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Williamson, Marianne. (n.d.). Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/

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Williamson, Marianne. "Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/.

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"Love is what we were born with. Fear is what we learned here." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-what-we-were-born-with-fear-is-what-we-14840/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Marianne Williamson (born July 8, 1952) is a Author from USA.

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