"My candle burns at both ends; it will not last the night; but ah, my foes, and oh, my friends - it gives a lovely light!"
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A single sentence turns self-destruction into a dare, and it lands because Millay refuses the respectable moral of thrift. The image is domestic, even cozy: a candle. Then she breaks the rules of the metaphor in the first clause, making the “both ends” burn not an accident but a choice. That choice carries the jazz-age electricity of Millay’s moment - a young poet-celebrity in the 1920s, living fast in public while women’s independence was both newly possible and newly policed. She writes like someone aware the crowd is already forming around her life.
The line “it will not last the night” isn’t tragedy; it’s logistics. Millay drains melodrama out of mortality and replaces it with timekeeping. The pivot to “my foes” and “my friends” is the real knife. She’s not speaking to a private diary; she’s addressing an audience split between scolds and admirers, the people who condemn her as reckless and the people who cheer her as liberated. By naming both, she controls the frame: you can judge me, but you are still watching.
The dash work is stagecraft. “But ah” and “oh” are theatrical little sighs, a performer’s intake of breath, and then the punchline: “it gives a lovely light!” The exclamation is not naive; it’s defiant. Millay’s subtext is that a short, bright life can be its own argument - not a plea for forgiveness, but a claim to aesthetic and personal authority in a culture eager to turn women’s intensity into cautionary tale.
The line “it will not last the night” isn’t tragedy; it’s logistics. Millay drains melodrama out of mortality and replaces it with timekeeping. The pivot to “my foes” and “my friends” is the real knife. She’s not speaking to a private diary; she’s addressing an audience split between scolds and admirers, the people who condemn her as reckless and the people who cheer her as liberated. By naming both, she controls the frame: you can judge me, but you are still watching.
The dash work is stagecraft. “But ah” and “oh” are theatrical little sighs, a performer’s intake of breath, and then the punchline: “it gives a lovely light!” The exclamation is not naive; it’s defiant. Millay’s subtext is that a short, bright life can be its own argument - not a plea for forgiveness, but a claim to aesthetic and personal authority in a culture eager to turn women’s intensity into cautionary tale.
Quote Details
| Topic | Live in the Moment |
|---|---|
| Source | Lines from the poem "First Fig" by Edna St. Vincent Millay (commonly printed as: "My candle burns at both ends; / It will not last the night; / But ah, my foes, and oh, my friends— / It gives a lovely light!"). |
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