"Nothing is so good as it seems beforehand"
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Anticipation is Eliot's quiet villain here, and she skewers it with the cool certainty of someone who has watched desire overpromise and deliver a bill. "Nothing is so good as it seems beforehand" isn't a dour claim that pleasure is impossible; it's a scalpel aimed at fantasy. The line deflates the mind's habit of upgrading the future into a private theater where our wants are never interrupted by weather, other people, or our own contradictory moods.
Eliot's intent feels double: a moral warning and a psychological observation. In her novels, yearning is rarely just romantic; it's ambition, self-image, the craving to be seen. "Beforehand" is doing the heavy lifting, because it marks the moment when we're most sovereign: no consequences yet, no frictions, no complexity. Once the thing arrives, it has to share space with reality - with time, fatigue, compromise, and the inconvenient fact that getting what we want often changes what we want.
The subtext is bracingly modern: the future isn't a destination, it's a projection screen. Eliot suggests that disappointment isn't always the world's failure; it's the mismatch between lived experience and the polished preview we manufacture to motivate ourselves.
Context matters: writing in the thick of Victorian realism, Eliot specialized in puncturing melodramatic plots with the stubborn texture of ordinary life. The sentence carries that realist ethic in miniature, turning a personal letdown into a critique of self-deception - and, slyly, a defense of maturity over craving.
Eliot's intent feels double: a moral warning and a psychological observation. In her novels, yearning is rarely just romantic; it's ambition, self-image, the craving to be seen. "Beforehand" is doing the heavy lifting, because it marks the moment when we're most sovereign: no consequences yet, no frictions, no complexity. Once the thing arrives, it has to share space with reality - with time, fatigue, compromise, and the inconvenient fact that getting what we want often changes what we want.
The subtext is bracingly modern: the future isn't a destination, it's a projection screen. Eliot suggests that disappointment isn't always the world's failure; it's the mismatch between lived experience and the polished preview we manufacture to motivate ourselves.
Context matters: writing in the thick of Victorian realism, Eliot specialized in puncturing melodramatic plots with the stubborn texture of ordinary life. The sentence carries that realist ethic in miniature, turning a personal letdown into a critique of self-deception - and, slyly, a defense of maturity over craving.
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