"Now the thing is not to get into unnecessary quarrels by talking too much and not to indicate any weakness by talking too much; let our actions speak for themselves"
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The phrase “unnecessary quarrels” tips the hand. Stimson isn’t warning against conflict; he’s warning against conflict you didn’t choose. Talk creates surfaces for opponents to grab: misquotes, wounded pride, diplomatic slights, promises you can’t keep. The second clause tightens the vise: “not to indicate any weakness.” Here, language becomes a tell, like a nervous gesture at a poker table. Over-talking reads as insecurity, indecision, or a need to justify. In high-stakes governance, justification is often interpreted as doubt - and doubt invites pressure.
“Let our actions speak for themselves” is the moral-sounding wrapper, but it’s also a strategic doctrine. Action can be calibrated, timed, and kept partially opaque; words are harder to retract. For a statesman whose career ran through the era of industrial war, intelligence work, and delicate alliance-management, this isn’t just personal advice - it’s an institutional preference for controlled messaging and executive latitude. The subtext is blunt: silence is not emptiness; it’s leverage. And Stimson, famously hawkish and patrician, is defending a style of leadership where credibility is projected through restraint, not confession.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Stimson, Henry L. (2026, January 15). Now the thing is not to get into unnecessary quarrels by talking too much and not to indicate any weakness by talking too much; let our actions speak for themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-the-thing-is-not-to-get-into-unnecessary-18865/
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Stimson, Henry L. "Now the thing is not to get into unnecessary quarrels by talking too much and not to indicate any weakness by talking too much; let our actions speak for themselves." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-the-thing-is-not-to-get-into-unnecessary-18865/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Now the thing is not to get into unnecessary quarrels by talking too much and not to indicate any weakness by talking too much; let our actions speak for themselves." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/now-the-thing-is-not-to-get-into-unnecessary-18865/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










