"Often we have no time for our friends but all the time in the world for our enemies"
About this Quote
As a novelist who wrote at the scale of nations and identity (Exodus, Mila 18), Uris understood how private habits of mind become public history. Communities, like individuals, can neglect the slow work of loyalty and care because it lacks the adrenaline of opposition. Enmity offers clarity: a target, a storyline, a sense of purpose. Friendship is messier. It demands maintenance without the dopamine hit of outrage, and it rarely flatters the ego the way righteous anger does.
The subtext is also self-accusatory: “we” implicates reader and speaker alike, turning a throwaway observation into a social diagnosis. In a culture that treats attention as currency, Uris warns that we’re funding the wrong accounts. The line works because it exposes a perverse efficiency: enemies feel urgent, friends feel safe, and so we starve what sustains us while feeding what corrodes us.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Uris, Leon. (2026, January 16). Often we have no time for our friends but all the time in the world for our enemies. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-we-have-no-time-for-our-friends-but-all-the-88231/
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Uris, Leon. "Often we have no time for our friends but all the time in the world for our enemies." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-we-have-no-time-for-our-friends-but-all-the-88231/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Often we have no time for our friends but all the time in the world for our enemies." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/often-we-have-no-time-for-our-friends-but-all-the-88231/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.






