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Time & Perspective Quote by Philip Pullman

"One curious thing about growing up is that you don't only move forward in time; you move backwards as well, as pieces of your parents' and grandparents' lives come to you"

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Growing up is usually sold as a one-way escalator: new freedoms, new knowledge, more selfhood. Pullman punctures that clean, forward-only myth with a sly paradox. Yes, you age into the future, but you also begin to live retroactively. The past doesn’t stay put in the photo albums; it arrives in installments, delivered through story, habit, inheritance, and belated recognition. What “comes to you” isn’t nostalgia. It’s material: family lore, unspoken griefs, class constraints, old romances, the hard logic behind choices you once judged as mere temperament.

The phrasing is doing quiet work. “Curious” lowers the temperature, making the insight feel observed rather than preached. “Pieces” matters too: you don’t get a coherent origin story, you get fragments. That’s how real families operate. Memory is partial, self-serving, and often revealed only when you’re old enough to carry it. Pullman’s subtext is that maturity isn’t just independence; it’s the slow collapse of the fantasy that your life began with you. You become an interpreter of earlier lives, and that interpretation reshapes your own.

Contextually, this fits Pullman’s broader project: stories as engines of moral perception. His fiction distrusts authority but takes lineage seriously, not as destiny, but as a set of forces you can finally name. The line captures the moment adulthood turns into archaeology: you keep walking forward, but the ground under your feet keeps yielding older bones.

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Pullman, Philip. (2026, January 18). One curious thing about growing up is that you don't only move forward in time; you move backwards as well, as pieces of your parents' and grandparents' lives come to you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-curious-thing-about-growing-up-is-that-you-7594/

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Pullman, Philip. "One curious thing about growing up is that you don't only move forward in time; you move backwards as well, as pieces of your parents' and grandparents' lives come to you." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-curious-thing-about-growing-up-is-that-you-7594/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"One curious thing about growing up is that you don't only move forward in time; you move backwards as well, as pieces of your parents' and grandparents' lives come to you." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/one-curious-thing-about-growing-up-is-that-you-7594/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.

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Philip Pullman (born October 19, 1946) is a Writer from United Kingdom.

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