"One of the things that goes with getting older is that one becomes more conservative - and I emphasise that when I use the word conservative I do not mean politically"
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Bernard, a journalist with a cultivated reputation for hard living, knows the joke has teeth. “Conservative” here means risk-averse, routine-hungry, less eager to be impressed, less willing to pay for mistakes with physical misery. It’s about self-preservation, not moral posturing. The subtext is almost physiological: hangovers worsen, late nights cost more, friendships thin out, and the margin for reinvention narrows. You stop gambling with your future because you can finally see it.
The line also slips in a quiet rebuke to lazy political storytelling. Not every life-arc bends toward right-wing voting; what changes is your tolerance for chaos. Bernard’s framing gives older people a different, more intimate kind of conservatism: keeping the familiar close, editing out drama, retreating from the theater of novelty. It’s wry, but not merely cynical. It admits that “getting older” can look like betrayal from the outside, when from the inside it feels like triage.
Context matters: in late-20th-century British media culture, “conservative” is a loaded label. Bernard defuses it by turning it into a personal diagnosis - a way to describe the slow, unglamorous recalibration that happens when consequences stop feeling hypothetical.
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