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"Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance: compassion puts us in mind of the debt, and that we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed"

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Butler slips a radical idea into the calm cadence of moral duty: suffering isn’t merely pitiable, it’s entitled. “Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance” converts charity from a mood into an obligation, and that legalistic word right quietly strips the helper of the flattering fantasy that they’re being magnanimous. You’re not the hero. You’re the debtor.

As an 18th-century Anglican clergyman, Butler is writing in a Britain where public moral philosophy is tangled with emerging commercial society: wealth is concentrating, the “deserving” and “undeserving” poor are being sorted, and pity can be treated as a private sentiment that costs little. His move is to reframe compassion as a kind of ethical accounting system. Compassion “puts us in mind of the debt” suggests that feeling is not the end of morality but the mechanism that reminds us we’re bound to one another.

The smartest twist is the last clause: “we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed.” Butler anticipates the modern argument that altruism is self-care’s stern cousin, but he means something sharper than wellness. If you can walk past misery without consequence, your inner life corrodes; you lose moral coherence, a sense of what a person is for. Helping the distressed isn’t only about their survival, it’s about preserving your own capacity to be human within a society that constantly offers excuses not to. Compassion here is less a soft virtue than a guardrail against self-degradation.

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Butler, Joseph. (2026, January 18). Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance: compassion puts us in mind of the debt, and that we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pain-and-sorrow-and-misery-have-a-right-to-our-10438/

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Butler, Joseph. "Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance: compassion puts us in mind of the debt, and that we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pain-and-sorrow-and-misery-have-a-right-to-our-10438/.

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"Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance: compassion puts us in mind of the debt, and that we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/pain-and-sorrow-and-misery-have-a-right-to-our-10438/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Joseph Butler (May 18, 1692 - June 16, 1752) was a Clergyman from England.

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