"People marry for a variety of reasons and with varying results. But to marry for love is to invite inevitable tragedy"
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The intent isn’t to deny love’s existence so much as to puncture love-as-justification. Marrying for money, status, convenience, duty: those arrangements at least admit their terms. Love, in Cabell’s telling, is the one motive that demands the impossible. It doesn’t merely want companionship; it wants permanence, transcendence, a guarantee that feeling can be converted into a lifelong contract. Tragedy becomes “inevitable” not because love is poisonous, but because love is a moving target and marriage is a fixed architecture. The subtext: when you marry for love, you smuggle an epic narrative into a domestic institution and then blame the institution when the narrative collapses.
Cabell’s context matters. Writing in the early 20th century, he belonged to a wry, disenchanted tradition that distrusted Victorian moral theater and the newer, consumer-friendly cult of romance. His fiction often treats ideals as beautiful frauds we need in order to function. That’s what gives the quote its bite: it’s not puritanical scolding, it’s a modernist diagnosis. Love is magnificent; making it your rationale is the hubris.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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Cabell, James Branch. (2026, January 16). People marry for a variety of reasons and with varying results. But to marry for love is to invite inevitable tragedy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-marry-for-a-variety-of-reasons-and-with-126100/
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Cabell, James Branch. "People marry for a variety of reasons and with varying results. But to marry for love is to invite inevitable tragedy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-marry-for-a-variety-of-reasons-and-with-126100/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People marry for a variety of reasons and with varying results. But to marry for love is to invite inevitable tragedy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-marry-for-a-variety-of-reasons-and-with-126100/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.








