"People often say that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves"
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The subtext is less self-help than power analysis. If you control the beholding, you can change what gets rewarded. "Places where others have not dared to look" points to how beauty standards operate: they narrow the frame, discourage curiosity, and punish deviation. Hayek isn't just encouraging people to feel pretty; she's proposing a small insurgency against the social scripts that label certain bodies, ages, features, and histories as unworthy of aesthetic interest.
The final pivot - "including inside ourselves" - matters because it relocates beauty from performance to interiority. For a public figure whose career has been filtered through objectifying narratives, this is also reputation management on her own terms: a way to claim depth without apologizing for glamour. It's a cultural move from being seen to deciding how seeing works.
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Hayek, Salma. (2026, January 16). People often say that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-say-that-beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-130681/
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Hayek, Salma. "People often say that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-say-that-beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-130681/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"People often say that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder,' and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/people-often-say-that-beauty-is-in-the-eye-of-the-130681/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.












