"Pleasure is often spoiled by describing it"
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Pleasure blooms in immediacy. To name it is to step outside it, to watch oneself enjoying rather than simply enjoy. Stendhal, the keen anatomist of passion, knew how quickly reflection can cool the blood. In De l'amour he charts the fever of desire with the notion of crystallization, that glittering exaggeration lovers cast over the beloved. The sparkle thrives on uncertainty and sensation. Too much explanation dissolves it like salt in water.
Language is a tool of distance. It turns pulses into propositions, heat into description. Once experience is translated into words, it becomes an object for scrutiny, comparison, and judgment. That movement from body to concept gives control, but it can bring sterility. Salon culture, which Stendhal both frequented and distrusted, prized brilliant talk about feeling; he saw that the performance of pleasure for others often kills the private flame that made it sweet.
The pattern plays out in his fiction as well. Characters who pause to analyze their ecstasies often lose them, tripped by pride, calculation, or the gaze of society. Pleasure asks for presence; analysis asks for vantage. One cannot stand in both places at once. Music, taste, erotic rapture, a sudden view of beauty in a gallery all exceed paraphrase. The attempt to pin them down can flatten their contour and narrow their mystery.
Yet the line also carries a paradox. Stendhal wrote endlessly about passion, risking the very loss he warns against. He answers it with speed, candor, and a taste for the concrete, trying to write as one lives, before the moment goes stale. The wisdom is not a wholesale ban on speech but a caution about timing and motive. Savor first, speak later. Let words serve memory rather than ambition, intimacy rather than display. Pleasure that remains partly unsaid keeps its power, like a melody remembered rather than dissected.
Language is a tool of distance. It turns pulses into propositions, heat into description. Once experience is translated into words, it becomes an object for scrutiny, comparison, and judgment. That movement from body to concept gives control, but it can bring sterility. Salon culture, which Stendhal both frequented and distrusted, prized brilliant talk about feeling; he saw that the performance of pleasure for others often kills the private flame that made it sweet.
The pattern plays out in his fiction as well. Characters who pause to analyze their ecstasies often lose them, tripped by pride, calculation, or the gaze of society. Pleasure asks for presence; analysis asks for vantage. One cannot stand in both places at once. Music, taste, erotic rapture, a sudden view of beauty in a gallery all exceed paraphrase. The attempt to pin them down can flatten their contour and narrow their mystery.
Yet the line also carries a paradox. Stendhal wrote endlessly about passion, risking the very loss he warns against. He answers it with speed, candor, and a taste for the concrete, trying to write as one lives, before the moment goes stale. The wisdom is not a wholesale ban on speech but a caution about timing and motive. Savor first, speak later. Let words serve memory rather than ambition, intimacy rather than display. Pleasure that remains partly unsaid keeps its power, like a melody remembered rather than dissected.
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