"Pleasure is often spoiled by describing it"
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Stendhal’s line is a small act of sabotage against the Enlightenment habit of turning every sensation into a specimen. “Pleasure is often spoiled by describing it” isn’t prudish; it’s anti-extractive. The moment you narrate pleasure, you start converting it into language that can be judged, traded, compared, improved. Description turns experience into performance, and performance invites an audience, and an audience invites self-consciousness. The real killer isn’t words per se; it’s the shift in posture from living to monitoring yourself living.
The subtext is psychological and faintly cynical: pleasure thrives in immediacy, in private intensity, in the half-known. Naming it can flatten it into categories (“romantic,” “sublime,” “dirty,” “tasteful”) that smuggle in other people’s standards. Stendhal, a novelist obsessed with the machinery of desire, is pointing at the way the mind interrupts its own bliss by trying to certify it. Once you’re explaining, you’re already outside the thing, watching yourself have it.
Context matters: early 19th-century France is a culture of salons, reputations, and cultivated taste, where talking well about feeling becomes its own sport. Stendhal’s jab lands because it’s directed at the social economy of confession and critique. Pleasure, in that world, risks becoming a product of narration rather than sensation.
It also reads eerily current. Today’s default mode is to caption life as it happens, to translate enjoyment into shareable proof. Stendhal’s warning isn’t anti-art; it’s a reminder that some experiences collapse under the weight of their own commentary.
The subtext is psychological and faintly cynical: pleasure thrives in immediacy, in private intensity, in the half-known. Naming it can flatten it into categories (“romantic,” “sublime,” “dirty,” “tasteful”) that smuggle in other people’s standards. Stendhal, a novelist obsessed with the machinery of desire, is pointing at the way the mind interrupts its own bliss by trying to certify it. Once you’re explaining, you’re already outside the thing, watching yourself have it.
Context matters: early 19th-century France is a culture of salons, reputations, and cultivated taste, where talking well about feeling becomes its own sport. Stendhal’s jab lands because it’s directed at the social economy of confession and critique. Pleasure, in that world, risks becoming a product of narration rather than sensation.
It also reads eerily current. Today’s default mode is to caption life as it happens, to translate enjoyment into shareable proof. Stendhal’s warning isn’t anti-art; it’s a reminder that some experiences collapse under the weight of their own commentary.
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