"Sports don't define us; it is not what we live for"
About this Quote
The intent is corrective. Wilbon is pushing back against the way sports culture can swallow everything else: civic life, family life, even moral judgment. The phrasing matters. “Don’t define us” rejects the shortcut of outsourcing meaning to tribal affiliation. “Not what we live for” goes further, challenging the faux-heroic language around championships and heartbreak, language that can make real stakes - health, violence, inequality, democracy - feel like background noise.
Subtext: sports are at their best as a lens, not a destination. They can illuminate character, community, and ambition, but they also enable selective amnesia. We forgive owners, excuse abusive stars, ignore public money spent on stadiums, and let outrage burn out because there’s always another game. Wilbon’s credibility is the context: as a prominent voice in modern sports media, he’s calling out the very industry incentive to inflate every matchup into existential drama. It’s a reminder that entertainment can be meaningful without being mistaken for meaning itself.
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| Topic | Sports |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilbon, Michael. (2026, January 17). Sports don't define us; it is not what we live for. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sports-dont-define-us-it-is-not-what-we-live-for-80145/
Chicago Style
Wilbon, Michael. "Sports don't define us; it is not what we live for." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sports-dont-define-us-it-is-not-what-we-live-for-80145/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Sports don't define us; it is not what we live for." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/sports-dont-define-us-it-is-not-what-we-live-for-80145/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.



