"Suffering is not good for the soul, unless it teaches you to stop suffering"
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The kicker is the conditional: “unless it teaches you to stop suffering.” Roberts isn’t denying hardship; she’s denying its supposed nobility. The intent is practical, almost impatient: stop treating anguish as proof of depth. Do something with it. The subtext nudges the reader away from martyrdom and toward agency, suggesting that the only “spiritual” value in suffering is diagnostic. Pain matters insofar as it reveals a false belief, a stuck behavior, a bad bargain you keep making with yourself.
Roberts’ context matters here. As the author associated with the Seth material and the self-actualization current of late-20th-century metaphysical writing, she’s pushing back on guilt-based spirituality and the idea that growth must be purchased with torment. The quote reads like a corrective to both religious asceticism and modern wellness culture’s quieter version of it: the belief that enduring discomfort is automatically transformative. Her standard is blunt: if you’re still suffering in the same way, you’re not being refined; you’re being trained to tolerate the intolerable.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roberts, Jane. (2026, January 15). Suffering is not good for the soul, unless it teaches you to stop suffering. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/suffering-is-not-good-for-the-soul-unless-it-69141/
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Roberts, Jane. "Suffering is not good for the soul, unless it teaches you to stop suffering." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/suffering-is-not-good-for-the-soul-unless-it-69141/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Suffering is not good for the soul, unless it teaches you to stop suffering." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/suffering-is-not-good-for-the-soul-unless-it-69141/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.









