"The essence of immorality is the tendency to make an exception of myself"
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Addams locates immorality in the habit of carving out a private exemption from the obligations that bind a community. Wrongdoing begins less with dramatic crimes than with the quiet conviction that the rules apply to others, while I, for reasons special to me, may slip past them. That tendency corrodes trust because it severs reciprocity: I claim the benefits of order and fairness while refusing the costs. It is not only hypocrisy but a failure of moral imagination, a refusal to see oneself as a fellow among fellows rather than a lone exception.
The insight grows out of Addams's Progressive Era work building a social ethic for a diverse democracy. At Hull House she rejected charitable distance and chose shared life, precisely to avoid the moral hazards of superior standing. She criticized elites who soothed their conscience with benevolence while defending labor practices, political machines, or legal loopholes that exempted them from the burdens their neighbors carried. The settlement ideal insisted that moral judgment must be embedded in relationships; living alongside others strips away the illusions that justify special treatment for oneself. In that light, immorality shows up in everyday ways: the driver who believes a busy schedule warrants ignoring laws, the taxpayer who rationalizes an extra deduction, the leader who treats office as immunity rather than stewardship.
The warning is timely. Societies fray when many people make small exceptions that, accumulated, become a culture of impunity. By contrast, democratic life depends on habits that bind us to one another: consistency, transparency, and a willingness to be governed by the same standards we ask of others. Addams points toward a humble ethic of citizenship in which moral integrity is measured not by lofty principles proclaimed but by the refusal to excuse oneself from the ordinary rules that keep common life possible.
The insight grows out of Addams's Progressive Era work building a social ethic for a diverse democracy. At Hull House she rejected charitable distance and chose shared life, precisely to avoid the moral hazards of superior standing. She criticized elites who soothed their conscience with benevolence while defending labor practices, political machines, or legal loopholes that exempted them from the burdens their neighbors carried. The settlement ideal insisted that moral judgment must be embedded in relationships; living alongside others strips away the illusions that justify special treatment for oneself. In that light, immorality shows up in everyday ways: the driver who believes a busy schedule warrants ignoring laws, the taxpayer who rationalizes an extra deduction, the leader who treats office as immunity rather than stewardship.
The warning is timely. Societies fray when many people make small exceptions that, accumulated, become a culture of impunity. By contrast, democratic life depends on habits that bind us to one another: consistency, transparency, and a willingness to be governed by the same standards we ask of others. Addams points toward a humble ethic of citizenship in which moral integrity is measured not by lofty principles proclaimed but by the refusal to excuse oneself from the ordinary rules that keep common life possible.
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