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Motivation Quote by Tony Dungy

"The further I get away from coaching, the more I know I made the right decision. You almost forget how wonderful family life is"

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Dungy’s line has the blunt relief of someone realizing they’d been living in a constant, self-imposed emergency. The first clause is telling: “The further I get away...” frames coaching less as a calling than as proximity to a noise source. Distance doesn’t create doubt; it clarifies. That’s a quiet rebuke to the sports-industrial myth that the work is so noble it should swallow everything else. He’s not romanticizing retirement as leisure. He’s describing withdrawal symptoms fading.

The subtext is also about how high-performance jobs distort memory. “You almost forget” suggests coaching doesn’t just consume hours; it colonizes attention. When your baseline is film sessions, roster churn, public scrutiny, and the weekly emotional whiplash of winning and losing, “wonderful family life” becomes less a constant than a sensation you have to relearn. Dungy isn’t confessing neglect so much as naming the system that normalizes it: a profession that rewards total availability, then calls it leadership.

Coming from Dungy, the intent lands differently because his public persona has long leaned toward steadiness and values-forward discipline. That makes the statement sharper: if even the emblem of composed professionalism describes the job as something you need distance from to feel human again, the critique isn’t about burnout-prone hotheads. It’s structural. The quote works because it’s unflashy and irreversible. He’s not leaving the door open for a comeback. He’s modeling permission: success can include walking away and discovering that the life you sidelined is not only still there, but better than you remembered.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Dungy, Tony. (2026, January 17). The further I get away from coaching, the more I know I made the right decision. You almost forget how wonderful family life is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-further-i-get-away-from-coaching-the-more-i-78962/

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Dungy, Tony. "The further I get away from coaching, the more I know I made the right decision. You almost forget how wonderful family life is." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-further-i-get-away-from-coaching-the-more-i-78962/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The further I get away from coaching, the more I know I made the right decision. You almost forget how wonderful family life is." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-further-i-get-away-from-coaching-the-more-i-78962/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Tony Dungy (born October 6, 1955) is a Coach from USA.

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