"We live, not as we wish to, but as we can"
About this Quote
In Mencius's world, people are born with the sprouts of virtue, but those sprouts survive only if the environment doesn't crush them. This is the subtext: character is real, but it is never disembodied. Hunger, bad rulers, war, and poverty don't just cause suffering; they deform moral possibility. A society that tells the poor to "choose better" while denying them the means is committing a philosophical error, not just a political one.
The intent is double-edged. It's a warning to individuals against indulging fantasies of total self-authorship, and it's an indictment of leaders who pretend that virtue can flourish without material security. Mencius repeatedly argues that humane governance isn't charity; it's infrastructure for conscience. Feed people, stabilize their lives, educate them, and you enlarge what they "can" do morally and materially.
The line works because it refuses both cynicism and wishful thinking. It doesn't deny aspiration; it relocates it. If we want life to look more like what we "wish", the fight isn't only inside the self. It's also over the conditions that determine what anyone can realistically become.
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