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Life & Wisdom Quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld

"We should often blush for our very best actions, if the world did but see all the motives upon which they were done"

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Virtue, La Rochefoucauld suggests, is a PR strategy we run on ourselves as much as on other people. The sting in “blush” is doing double work: it’s embarrassment, yes, but also exposure. He’s not saying good deeds are fake; he’s saying they’re rarely pure, and that purity is the alibi we crave. If the “world” could audit the backstage ledger of our kindnesses - the need to be admired, to soothe guilt, to look consistent, to win leverage, to preempt criticism - even our best moments would start to look compromised.

The line’s power comes from its calm inevitability. “Often” and “very best” narrow the claim, making it harder to dismiss as misanthropic grandstanding. He isn’t indicting villains; he’s indicting the flattering story decent people tell about themselves. The conditional “if the world did but see” makes motive a hidden infrastructure: action is the visible architecture, but the load-bearing beams are self-interest, vanity, fear, and desire. That’s the subtext: morality is social, and social life is performance, even when we’re performing sincerity.

Context matters. La Rochefoucauld wrote in the pressure-cooker of 17th-century French court culture, where reputation was currency and every gesture could be read as maneuver. His Maxim doesn’t romanticize that world; it anatomizes it. In an environment built on appearances, the cleanest-looking virtue is often the most carefully staged. The quote endures because it targets a modern discomfort: we want ethics without ego, but we live as creatures who constantly negotiate status, belonging, and self-image.

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Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Francois de La Rochefoucauld (September 15, 1613 - March 17, 1680) was a Writer from France.

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