"You've got to learn to survive a defeat. That's when you develop character"
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The subtext is unmistakably Nixonian: character isn’t innate nobility, it’s hardness earned under scrutiny. Coming from a man whose career was defined by comebacks and grudges, the sentence reads as autobiography with the serial numbers filed off. Nixon lost big (most famously the 1960 presidential race and the 1962 California governor’s race) and built a whole political identity out of resentment disciplined into strategy. Defeat taught him how to take hits, but also how to see politics as a brutal arena where sentiment is a liability.
Context matters because Nixon’s relationship to “character” is complicated by history. After Watergate, any claim to moral growth feels double-edged: is he describing an ethical education, or a thicker skin that helps you outlast shame? The line works because it’s both. It’s an American bootstraps sermon and a quietly dark admission that power rewards those who can metabolize loss without cracking - or apologizing too cleanly.
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"You've got to learn to survive a defeat. That's when you develop character." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/youve-got-to-learn-to-survive-a-defeat-thats-when-17157/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.










