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Creativity Quote by Paul Simon

"A man sees what he wants to see, And disregards the rest"

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Paul Simon distills a whole psychology of self-deception into a couplet that sounds like a shrug and lands like an indictment. The line moves with the ease of a pop lyric, but its bite comes from how quietly it assigns blame: perception isn’t just limited, it’s curated. “Sees what he wants to see” isn’t about innocence or mere bias; it’s desire doing editorial work, turning reality into a personalized playlist. Then the second half snaps the trap shut: “disregards the rest.” Not “can’t see,” not “misses,” but disregards - an active decision to discard inconvenient facts.

That’s why it resonates culturally. It’s the soundtrack to selective attention long before we had algorithm talk: romantic denial, political tribalism, the way we cherry-pick memories to protect the story we’re telling about ourselves. The gendered “man” reads as both a character and a stand-in for the human tendency to confuse preference with truth; it’s intimate enough to feel like a relationship lyric and broad enough to double as social critique.

Context matters, too: Simon writes from inside the everyday, not above it. The phrasing is plain, almost proverb-like, which lets listeners project their own situations onto it - a lover ignoring red flags, a voter ignoring evidence, a friend insisting they’re “fine.” The genius is the rhythm of inevitability: want, see, disregard. Desire, perception, omission. A neat moral failure, set to music.

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Later attribution: Proust Was a Neuroscientist (Jonah Lehrer, 2011) modern compilationISBN: 9780857860422 · ID: tJ9dQIxeYVQC
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Simon, Paul. (2026, January 13). A man sees what he wants to see, And disregards the rest. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sees-what-he-wants-to-see-and-disregards-108907/

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Simon, Paul. "A man sees what he wants to see, And disregards the rest." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sees-what-he-wants-to-see-and-disregards-108907/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"A man sees what he wants to see, And disregards the rest." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/a-man-sees-what-he-wants-to-see-and-disregards-108907/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Paul Simon (born October 13, 1941) is a Musician from USA.

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