"And not only my own brothers and sisters agreed so but my brothers and sisters in law; and their children, although but young, had the like agreeable natures and affectionate dispositions"
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In Cavendish’s 17th-century world, a woman’s voice in print was already a provocation. One way to blunt the charge of immodesty or eccentricity was to frame oneself as embedded in proper kinship, endorsed by the people who supposedly know you best. “Agreed” matters as much as “affectionate”: she’s not merely loved, she’s validated. Even the children’s “agreeable natures” read like strategic evidence, implying that goodness is both recognized by innocents and reproducible as a family trait.
There’s also a quiet politics of legitimacy. In-laws are the test case, the skeptical jury you didn’t grow up with; their agreement suggests the harmony isn’t parochial or biased. The line becomes a soft rebuttal to gossip and faction, the period’s favorite sport. Cavendish is writing herself into safety: not pleading for acceptance, but building a chorus around her, so her singularity can appear, paradoxically, as consensus.
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Cavendish, Margaret. (2026, January 16). And not only my own brothers and sisters agreed so but my brothers and sisters in law; and their children, although but young, had the like agreeable natures and affectionate dispositions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-not-only-my-own-brothers-and-sisters-agreed-119967/
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Cavendish, Margaret. "And not only my own brothers and sisters agreed so but my brothers and sisters in law; and their children, although but young, had the like agreeable natures and affectionate dispositions." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-not-only-my-own-brothers-and-sisters-agreed-119967/.
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"And not only my own brothers and sisters agreed so but my brothers and sisters in law; and their children, although but young, had the like agreeable natures and affectionate dispositions." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/and-not-only-my-own-brothers-and-sisters-agreed-119967/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.








