"Fear comes in two packages fear of failure, and sometimes, fear of success"
About this Quote
“Fear of failure” is familiar: the missed cut, the blown lead, the public proof that your work didn’t add up. Golf, especially in Kite’s era of televised scrutiny and tightening margins, turns that fear into a daily companion. You’re alone with your swing and your thoughts, and every shot is a tiny referendum on your competence. That’s the obvious package.
The sharper move is naming “fear of success” without romanticizing it. Success doesn’t just raise your ceiling; it raises your rent. It brings expectations you didn’t have to carry yesterday, changes how people watch you, and makes the cost of a bad day feel higher. In a precision sport where confidence is fragile and repetition is everything, success can quietly rearrange your internal incentives: you start protecting your status instead of chasing improvement. The subtext is about identity management. Winning threatens to make “being good” a permanent job description, and permanence is heavy.
Kite isn’t offering therapy; he’s offering a practical map. If you can label the fear, you can plan around it. The quote’s intent is less “be brave” than “be honest about what’s actually tightening your grip.”
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kite, Tom. (2026, January 17). Fear comes in two packages fear of failure, and sometimes, fear of success. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-comes-in-two-packages-fear-of-failure-and-76704/
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Kite, Tom. "Fear comes in two packages fear of failure, and sometimes, fear of success." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-comes-in-two-packages-fear-of-failure-and-76704/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Fear comes in two packages fear of failure, and sometimes, fear of success." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-comes-in-two-packages-fear-of-failure-and-76704/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.








