"Feminists wish women to seem like men. They're not men"
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The blunt tag line - “They’re not men” - is doing double duty. On the surface it’s biological essentialism: a curt refusal of gender fluidity or sameness. Underneath, it’s a provocation against the old corporate bargain many women have been offered: adopt the uniform (the suit, the hard edges, the suppressed ornament) and you’ll be taken seriously. Westwood frames that bargain as a kind of cultural tragedy, where “power” is defined so narrowly that it requires women to erase what she considers distinctly feminine.
Context matters: Westwood came up through punk, a scene that attacked respectable masculinity and respectable femininity at the same time. Her own work put women in armor and men in lace; she profited from gender drag even as she defended difference. That tension is the subtext: she’s not rejecting gender play so much as insisting it should be chosen, flamboyant, and aesthetic - not mandated by a politics she caricatures as humorless assimilation.
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Westwood, Vivienne. (2026, January 18). Feminists wish women to seem like men. They're not men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminists-wish-women-to-seem-like-men-theyre-not-23218/
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Westwood, Vivienne. "Feminists wish women to seem like men. They're not men." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminists-wish-women-to-seem-like-men-theyre-not-23218/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Feminists wish women to seem like men. They're not men." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminists-wish-women-to-seem-like-men-theyre-not-23218/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

