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Happiness Quote by Thomas Traherne

"Happiness was not made to be boasted, but enjoyed. Therefore tho others count me miserable, I will not believe them if I know and feel myself to be happy; nor fear them"

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A clergyman telling you not to advertise your joy is already a quiet rebuke to the culture of public virtue. Traherne frames happiness as something essentially private and sensory: "know and feel" beats "count". That verb choice matters. Misery is what other people tally up from appearances, status, losses, piety performed at the right volume. Happiness, for him, is not a social verdict but an inward apprehension, almost a bodily certainty. In the 17th-century Christian world, where spiritual health was constantly audited by community, doctrine, and your own suspicious conscience, this is a small act of rebellion.

The line "not made to be boasted, but enjoyed" carries the theological subtext: boasting converts a gift into a possession, something the ego can display and defend. Enjoyment keeps it in the register of grace - received, experienced, then let go. It's also a warning about the corrosive feedback loop of reputation. Once happiness becomes a performance, it becomes vulnerable to the crowd's appetite for correction, skepticism, even punishment.

"Therefore tho others count me miserable" tilts toward a social reality Traherne would have known well: outward affliction, religious conflict, precarious livelihoods. He doesn't deny that you can look miserable; he denies that the look has jurisdiction over the self. The final kicker, "nor fear them", turns contentment into armor. If your inner life is intact, public opinion loses its favorite weapon: the ability to intimidate you into confessing you are unhappy.

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Thomas Traherne (1636 AC - October 10, 1674) was a Clergyman from United Kingdom.

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