"I believe that sex is good and so is the body"
About this Quote
The specific intent reads as corrective medicine for a tradition that has often disciplined desire through shame. By pairing "sex" with "the body", Buckley denies the familiar split between a pure soul and a dirty vessel. The grammar makes them parallel goods, not a temptation tolerated under strict conditions. It’s a theological move disguised as a casual affirmation: incarnation over abstraction, flesh as part of the sacred economy rather than an obstacle to it.
Subtext: this is also pastoral triage. A line like this is for congregants carrying inherited guilt, for people bruised by purity culture, for anyone taught to treat their own skin as suspect. It hints at consent and tenderness without preaching them; it implies that spiritual health can’t be built on self-loathing.
Context matters because clerical approval of sex is never neutral. Said from a pulpit, it pushes against institutional histories of control - over women’s bodies, queer bodies, reproductive choices. The quote works because it’s simple enough to sound like common sense, yet radical enough (in that setting) to rewire what "holiness" has been allowed to include.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buckley, Pat. (2026, January 15). I believe that sex is good and so is the body. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-sex-is-good-and-so-is-the-body-159319/
Chicago Style
Buckley, Pat. "I believe that sex is good and so is the body." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-sex-is-good-and-so-is-the-body-159319/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I believe that sex is good and so is the body." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-believe-that-sex-is-good-and-so-is-the-body-159319/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.











