"I don't love kids"
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In a culture that treats “loving kids” like a moral entry fee, “I don’t love kids” lands as a tiny act of profanity. Cyrus isn’t confessing to cruelty; she’s refusing compulsory sentimentality. The bluntness is the point. It’s a rejection of the soft-focus script that women in pop are expected to follow: be sexy but safe, edgy but nurturing, famous but ultimately maternal. Four words, and the room suddenly has to admit there are options.
The specific intent reads like boundary-setting, not shock for shock’s sake. Cyrus has spent her career being drafted into other people’s narratives - Disney’s wholesome daughter, the tabloid’s cautionary tale, the redemption arc waiting to happen. Saying she doesn’t love kids interrupts the default assumption that adulthood (and “growth”) means a pivot to domestic sweetness. It’s a statement of autonomy in a public life where even your future family is treated like communal property.
The subtext is also classically celebrity-era: she’s preempting the inevitable “When are you having babies?” loop by pulling the pin herself. For a musician whose image has been policed since adolescence, disinterest becomes a form of self-defense. It tells interviewers, fans, and critics: stop auditioning me for roles I didn’t apply for.
Context matters because Cyrus’s brand is reinvention. Here, reinvention isn’t a new sound; it’s a refusal to apologize for not being the kind of woman pop culture finds comforting. The line works because it’s plain, unromantic, and socially disobedient. It exposes how much of “liking kids” is expectation dressed up as virtue.
The specific intent reads like boundary-setting, not shock for shock’s sake. Cyrus has spent her career being drafted into other people’s narratives - Disney’s wholesome daughter, the tabloid’s cautionary tale, the redemption arc waiting to happen. Saying she doesn’t love kids interrupts the default assumption that adulthood (and “growth”) means a pivot to domestic sweetness. It’s a statement of autonomy in a public life where even your future family is treated like communal property.
The subtext is also classically celebrity-era: she’s preempting the inevitable “When are you having babies?” loop by pulling the pin herself. For a musician whose image has been policed since adolescence, disinterest becomes a form of self-defense. It tells interviewers, fans, and critics: stop auditioning me for roles I didn’t apply for.
Context matters because Cyrus’s brand is reinvention. Here, reinvention isn’t a new sound; it’s a refusal to apologize for not being the kind of woman pop culture finds comforting. The line works because it’s plain, unromantic, and socially disobedient. It exposes how much of “liking kids” is expectation dressed up as virtue.
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| Topic | Parenting |
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