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Time & Perspective Quote by Kate Bush

"I had friends but I was spending a great deal of my time alone and for me that was vital because there's an awful lot you learn about yourself when you're alone"

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Kate Bush frames solitude not as a symptom to fix but as a tool to wield. Coming from an artist whose career has often prioritized privacy over publicity, the line reads like a quiet manifesto against the entertainment industrys default setting: constant visibility, constant company, constant performance. She begins with a disarming concession - "I had friends" - preempting the familiar worry that being alone must mean being lonely. Then she pivots to a harder claim: alone time was "vital", not optional, not indulgent.

The phrasing does a lot of cultural work. "Spending a great deal of my time alone" sounds almost logistical, like a scheduling choice, which subtly normalizes something many people treat as antisocial. Her blunt "awful lot" is deliberately unpoetic, grounding the insight in lived reality rather than mystique. Its also an implicit rebuttal to the idea that self-knowledge arrives through crowds, feedback, and constant conversation. Bush suggests the opposite: the self shows up when the noise drops.

The subtext is creative autonomy. For a musician, solitude is where taste gets formed without outside votes; where you can hear your own instincts before they get edited by approval. In a culture that often confuses connection with access, Bush is defending a boundary: you can love people and still need distance from them to understand who you are. The quote lands because it refuses the binary. Friends arent the enemy; uninterrupted interior life is simply nonnegotiable.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bush, Kate. (2026, January 16). I had friends but I was spending a great deal of my time alone and for me that was vital because there's an awful lot you learn about yourself when you're alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-friends-but-i-was-spending-a-great-deal-of-84143/

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Bush, Kate. "I had friends but I was spending a great deal of my time alone and for me that was vital because there's an awful lot you learn about yourself when you're alone." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-friends-but-i-was-spending-a-great-deal-of-84143/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I had friends but I was spending a great deal of my time alone and for me that was vital because there's an awful lot you learn about yourself when you're alone." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-friends-but-i-was-spending-a-great-deal-of-84143/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Kate Bush (born July 30, 1958) is a Musician from United Kingdom.

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