"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?"
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The first question is not selfishness dressed up as wisdom; it's an argument against spiritual bypassing. In a community built around law and obligation, "Who will be for me?" recognizes that dignity and survival require agency. No one else can take your place in the work of becoming a person. The second question snaps that agency back into proportion. "If I am not for others, what am I?" is an identity claim, not a charity slogan. Hillel implies the self is not a sealed unit; a self that hoards its concern collapses into something less than human.
Then comes the line that makes the whole thing bite: "If not now, when?" It's a rhetorical trapdoor. You can't postpone responsibility to a cleaner future, a calmer season, a more convenient politics. That immediacy reflects the context of late Second Temple Judaism, where communal continuity, ethical conduct, and debate about how to live under pressure weren't abstract. Hillel, known in rabbinic tradition for humility and patience, turns those traits into a disciplined demand: balance self-care with obligation, and stop outsourcing action to tomorrow.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
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| Source | Unverified source: Mishnah (Tractate Avot 1:14 / Pirkei Avot 1:14) (Rabbi Hillel, 200)
Evidence: Chapter 1, Mishnah 14 (Avot 1:14). Primary-source locus is Mishnah Avot 1:14 (Pirkei Avot 1:14), attributed there to Hillel. The Mishnah is generally dated to a late-2nd/early-3rd century CE redaction (often cited as ~c. 200 CE) rather than a single 'publication' event in the modern sense. What c... Other candidates (2) The Global War on Morris (Steve Israel, 2015) compilation95.8% ... Rabbi , Rabbi Hillel . Who taught tikkun olam , the repair of an imperfect world . The Rabbi said — and repeat af... Hillel the Elder (Rabbi Hillel) compilation88.0% tai if i am not for myself then who will be for me but when i am for myself then what am i and if not now when 114 do |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Hillel, Rabbi. (n.d.). If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-not-for-myself-who-will-be-for-me-if-i-am-168315/
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Hillel, Rabbi. "If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?" FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-not-for-myself-who-will-be-for-me-if-i-am-168315/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? If I am not for others, what am I? And if not now, when?" FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-i-am-not-for-myself-who-will-be-for-me-if-i-am-168315/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.











