"If you live in rock and roll, as I do, you see the reality of sex, of male lust and women being aroused by male lust. It attracts women. It doesn't repel them"
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The intent is to invert the expected moral charge. “Reality” is her battering ram: not an argument so much as a dare. By framing lust as something women are “aroused by,” she’s pushing an older Paglia thesis that erotic life is not naturally egalitarian or neatly ethical, and that denying its volatility leads to bad politics and worse art. Rock becomes her evidentiary stage because it’s one of the few mainstream arenas where raw appetite has historically been allowed to show its face, often crudely, sometimes brilliantly.
The subtext is riskier than the punchy phrasing suggests. She collapses “women” into a single audience response, treating attraction as a kind of marketplace vote: it “attracts” or it “repels.” That move shifts attention away from power and coercion toward libido and performance, implicitly challenging the idea that women’s participation can’t coexist with exploitation. It’s also a rhetorical trap: disagree and you’re cast as naive or prudish; agree and you may sound like you’re naturalizing behavior that, in real life, can slide from lust into entitlement. That friction is the point. Paglia isn’t trying to soothe; she’s trying to force a reckoning between desire as it is lived and the stories we tell about it to feel righteous.
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Paglia, Camille. (2026, January 17). If you live in rock and roll, as I do, you see the reality of sex, of male lust and women being aroused by male lust. It attracts women. It doesn't repel them. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-in-rock-and-roll-as-i-do-you-see-the-39777/
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Paglia, Camille. "If you live in rock and roll, as I do, you see the reality of sex, of male lust and women being aroused by male lust. It attracts women. It doesn't repel them." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-in-rock-and-roll-as-i-do-you-see-the-39777/.
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"If you live in rock and roll, as I do, you see the reality of sex, of male lust and women being aroused by male lust. It attracts women. It doesn't repel them." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/if-you-live-in-rock-and-roll-as-i-do-you-see-the-39777/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






