"In order to succeed you must fail, so that you know what not to do the next time"
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Failure gets billed as humiliation, but D'Angelo reframes it as a curriculum. The line is built like a pragmatic bargain: if you want the clean, Instagrammable outcome called success, you have to pay the admission fee of mistakes. That’s the specific intent - to inoculate ambition against fragility. It’s not comfort; it’s training.
The subtext is more pointed than the usual “keep trying” mantra. “So that you know what not to do” treats failure as data, not destiny. It quietly rejects the romantic myth of talent as a straight line and replaces it with iteration: hypotheses, wrong turns, revision. There’s an implied critique of perfectionism here, especially the kind that disguises itself as “high standards” while actually being fear of exposure. If you never fail, you never actually stress-test your goals; you’re only protecting your self-image.
Context matters because this is advice literature speaking in the language of performance culture. In a world that rewards confident narratives - the founder story, the comeback arc, the “overnight success” - D’Angelo insists on the unphotogenic middle: the drafts, the flops, the embarrassing prototypes. The quote works because it gives failure a job description. It’s not a moral lesson about character; it’s a tool for calibration. Success isn’t luck or purity. It’s what’s left after you’ve systematically eliminated what doesn’t work.
The subtext is more pointed than the usual “keep trying” mantra. “So that you know what not to do” treats failure as data, not destiny. It quietly rejects the romantic myth of talent as a straight line and replaces it with iteration: hypotheses, wrong turns, revision. There’s an implied critique of perfectionism here, especially the kind that disguises itself as “high standards” while actually being fear of exposure. If you never fail, you never actually stress-test your goals; you’re only protecting your self-image.
Context matters because this is advice literature speaking in the language of performance culture. In a world that rewards confident narratives - the founder story, the comeback arc, the “overnight success” - D’Angelo insists on the unphotogenic middle: the drafts, the flops, the embarrassing prototypes. The quote works because it gives failure a job description. It’s not a moral lesson about character; it’s a tool for calibration. Success isn’t luck or purity. It’s what’s left after you’ve systematically eliminated what doesn’t work.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Words of Wisdom (Volume 10) (Dr Purushothaman, 2014) modern compilationID: iP7KAwAAQBAJ
Evidence: ... In order to succeed you must fail so that you know what not to do the next time. Anthony J. D'Angelo It is in the small decisions you and I make every day that create our destiny. Anthony Robbins Deliver more than you are getting paid ... Other candidates (1) Donald Trump (Anthony J. D'Angelo) compilation41.8% is corona flu andor virus so you just cant do that so if you know we have thousands or hundreds of |
| Featured | This quote was our Quote of the Day on December 30, 2025 |
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