"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure"
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The line also functions as a moral trap. If pain is the route, then the usual ethical brakes (empathy, restraint, consent as a limit) get reframed as naive obstacles to truth. It’s not only that pain can accompany pleasure; it’s that pain becomes the credential that authenticates pleasure. That logic turns cruelty into a kind of sophistication, a badge of having gone further than polite society dares.
Context matters: De Sade wrote from the pressure cooker of late ancien regime and revolutionary France, a period obsessed with the body, punishment, and power, when institutions publicly disciplined flesh while privately indulging vice. His novels are less sex manuals than political allegories in obscene clothing: the libertine as tyrant, desire as regime, the weak as raw material. The sentence lands because it compresses that bleak anthropology into a crisp, almost elegant cadence. It sounds like wisdom. That’s the danger.
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"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-always-by-way-of-pain-one-arrives-at-4169/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







