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"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure"

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De Sade doesn’t just flirt with paradox; he weaponizes it. "It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure" reads like a perverse proverb, the kind meant to sound inevitable, even reasonable, while smuggling in an entire worldview: that desire is not a gentle pursuit but a force that proves itself through transgression. The absolute "always" is the giveaway. This isn’t psychological nuance; it’s an attempt to make suffering feel like a law of nature, an argument that pleasure needs violence the way fire needs oxygen.

The line also functions as a moral trap. If pain is the route, then the usual ethical brakes (empathy, restraint, consent as a limit) get reframed as naive obstacles to truth. It’s not only that pain can accompany pleasure; it’s that pain becomes the credential that authenticates pleasure. That logic turns cruelty into a kind of sophistication, a badge of having gone further than polite society dares.

Context matters: De Sade wrote from the pressure cooker of late ancien regime and revolutionary France, a period obsessed with the body, punishment, and power, when institutions publicly disciplined flesh while privately indulging vice. His novels are less sex manuals than political allegories in obscene clothing: the libertine as tyrant, desire as regime, the weak as raw material. The sentence lands because it compresses that bleak anthropology into a crisp, almost elegant cadence. It sounds like wisdom. That’s the danger.

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Sade, Marquis de. (2026, January 14). It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-always-by-way-of-pain-one-arrives-at-4169/

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Sade, Marquis de. "It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-always-by-way-of-pain-one-arrives-at-4169/.

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"It is always by way of pain one arrives at pleasure." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-always-by-way-of-pain-one-arrives-at-4169/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Marquis de Sade

Marquis de Sade (June 2, 1740 - December 2, 1814) was a Novelist from France.

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