"The pleasure of those who injure you lies in your pain. Therefore they will suffer if you take away their pleasure by not feeling pain"
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Tertullian’s Christian context makes the logic sharper. As a writer steeped in persecution-era psychology, he’s not offering bland stoicism; he’s offering a tactical spirituality. If the enemy’s pleasure depends on your despair, then composure becomes a form of resistance and, in a Christian frame, a kind of witness. “Not feeling pain” isn’t literal anesthesia so much as a refusal to perform pain on demand. It’s the martyr’s paradox: suffering may be unavoidable, but the meaning of that suffering is not owned by the persecutor.
The subtext is quietly aggressive. He’s not just consoling the wounded; he’s threatening the wounder with frustration and inner collapse. It’s revenge without the messy optics of revenge, a moral judo move that turns the opponent’s motive against them. Still, the line also reveals a hard truth about power: it feeds on feedback. When you stop supplying it, you don’t erase the injury, but you sabotage the spectacle that keeps injury profitable.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tertullian. (2026, January 17). The pleasure of those who injure you lies in your pain. Therefore they will suffer if you take away their pleasure by not feeling pain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pleasure-of-those-who-injure-you-lies-in-your-65943/
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Tertullian. "The pleasure of those who injure you lies in your pain. Therefore they will suffer if you take away their pleasure by not feeling pain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pleasure-of-those-who-injure-you-lies-in-your-65943/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The pleasure of those who injure you lies in your pain. Therefore they will suffer if you take away their pleasure by not feeling pain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-pleasure-of-those-who-injure-you-lies-in-your-65943/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










