"It is not love that is blind, but jealousy"
About this Quote
The intent is corrective, almost clinical. Jealousy doesn’t merely intensify love; it distorts perception until every neutral detail becomes evidence and every absence becomes a plot. Blindness here isn’t ignorance, it’s tunnel vision: a compulsive narrowing of reality to whatever supports the fear of being replaced. Durrell’s phrasing makes jealousy the agent, not the symptom. That’s the subtextual sting: jealousy is less an unavoidable feeling than a choice to prioritize possession over understanding.
Context matters because Durrell’s work circles obsession, erotic power, and the politics of intimacy - especially in The Alexandria Quartet, where desire is rarely pure and almost never private. In that world, jealousy is an epistemology: a way characters “know” one another by interrogating, projecting, controlling. The wit is that jealousy claims to be hyper-attentive (“I notice everything”), while Durrell labels it blind. It sees constantly, and understands nothing.
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| Topic | Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Durrell, Lawrence. (2026, January 15). It is not love that is blind, but jealousy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-love-that-is-blind-but-jealousy-7551/
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Durrell, Lawrence. "It is not love that is blind, but jealousy." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-love-that-is-blind-but-jealousy-7551/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"It is not love that is blind, but jealousy." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/it-is-not-love-that-is-blind-but-jealousy-7551/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










