"It's really good to be able to think about past loves without having a pit in my stomach, or cringing or feeling heart-broken, or like they hate you. Don't you think?"

In this quote, Winona Ryder reflects on the capability to think about past loves without negative feelings. She expresses relief in being able to recollect without feeling a physical or psychological reaction such as a pit in her stomach, cringing, heartbreak, or the fear of being disliked by her previous partners. This suggests that she has reached a point of peace and acceptance in her relationships, where she can look back on them with a sense of peace and understanding. She then presents a concern, inviting the reader to consider their own experiences and ideas on this matter. In general, the quote highlights the importance of emotional growth and healing in proceeding from previous enjoys.