"I've never looked at love as something that I need to complete me. I would like to be complete on my own first and fall in love with somebody who is also complete"
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The subtext is a weariness with being cast as a role rather than a person. For women in entertainment especially, relationships are often treated like plot points - proof of stability, chaos, maturity, desirability. Grande’s phrasing pushes back against the idea that love is a credential or a corrective. She’s insisting on self-definition before mutual definition, which also reads as a response to a public life where identity is constantly edited by headlines, fandom, and speculation.
Context matters: Grande’s adult career has unfolded under intense scrutiny of her dating life, grief, and reinvention, with every relationship turned into a cultural Rorschach test. So this isn’t just personal; it’s strategic. By demanding “somebody who is also complete,” she’s setting expectations that disrupt codependency as romance and refusing to romanticize emotional labor as femininity. The appeal is modern because it’s neither cynical nor naive: love is welcome, but it can’t be the scaffolding holding you together.
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| Topic | Self-Love |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grande, Ariana. (2026, January 15). I've never looked at love as something that I need to complete me. I would like to be complete on my own first and fall in love with somebody who is also complete. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-looked-at-love-as-something-that-i-need-172057/
Chicago Style
Grande, Ariana. "I've never looked at love as something that I need to complete me. I would like to be complete on my own first and fall in love with somebody who is also complete." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-looked-at-love-as-something-that-i-need-172057/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I've never looked at love as something that I need to complete me. I would like to be complete on my own first and fall in love with somebody who is also complete." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/ive-never-looked-at-love-as-something-that-i-need-172057/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










