"Love is simply the name for the desire and the pursuit of the whole"
About this Quote
The line’s real engine is “the whole.” Aristophanes (as Plato ventriloquizes him in the Symposium) frames human longing as a comedy with a cosmic backstory: once we were complete, then split, then condemned to roam the earth looking for our missing half. The myth is absurd on purpose - a poet’s fable deployed in a room full of philosophers. Its intent isn’t biological accuracy; it’s emotional accuracy. The subtext is that our most intimate attachments can feel less like choice than like recognition, as if the body is remembering an earlier integrity.
There’s also a sly critique of human vanity. If love is a pursuit of wholeness, lovers aren’t just chasing another person; they’re chasing a repaired self. That reorients desire from “I want you” to “I want to stop feeling divided,” which is both tender and faintly selfish. Aristophanes makes it work by compressing longing into a single, elegant thesis: love is not the destination, it’s the name we give the chase.
Quote Details
| Topic | Soulmate |
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| Source | Plato, Symposium — Aristophanes' speech (Benjamin Jowett translation). Commonly rendered: "Love is simply the name for the desire and the pursuit of the whole." |
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"Love is simply the name for the desire and the pursuit of the whole." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/love-is-simply-the-name-for-the-desire-and-the-157747/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










