"Our enemy is by tradition our savior, in preventing us from superficiality"
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Oates flips the moral furniture with a single sly pivot: the enemy, that stock figure of threat and grievance, becomes an unlikely agent of depth. The line works because it refuses the comfort of clean categories. “By tradition” is doing quiet, corrosive work here, hinting that we inherit our antagonisms the way we inherit family stories: half true, half convenient, stubbornly repeated. Enemies aren’t just encountered; they’re curated, maintained, and mythologized.
The “savior” claim isn’t sentimental. It’s almost grudging. Oates suggests that conflict is one of the few forces strong enough to puncture the glossy narratives we tell ourselves when life is going well. Superficiality thrives on ease: the untested opinion, the identity worn like a brand, the morality that’s never had to pay rent in reality. An enemy introduces friction. They force the self to sharpen its arguments, examine its motives, and confront the possibility that its coherence depends on what it opposes.
The subtext is uncomfortable: we may need antagonists to feel real. That’s a psychological insight and a cultural critique. In a media ecosystem that rewards outrage and rival camps, “enemy” can become a productivity hack for meaning, a shortcut to intensity. Oates, as a novelist steeped in violence, obsession, and American psychic turbulence, is also warning about the seductive utility of opposition. The enemy “prevents us” from superficiality, yes, but at a price: when salvation comes from hostility, we risk confusing depth with perpetual combat.
The “savior” claim isn’t sentimental. It’s almost grudging. Oates suggests that conflict is one of the few forces strong enough to puncture the glossy narratives we tell ourselves when life is going well. Superficiality thrives on ease: the untested opinion, the identity worn like a brand, the morality that’s never had to pay rent in reality. An enemy introduces friction. They force the self to sharpen its arguments, examine its motives, and confront the possibility that its coherence depends on what it opposes.
The subtext is uncomfortable: we may need antagonists to feel real. That’s a psychological insight and a cultural critique. In a media ecosystem that rewards outrage and rival camps, “enemy” can become a productivity hack for meaning, a shortcut to intensity. Oates, as a novelist steeped in violence, obsession, and American psychic turbulence, is also warning about the seductive utility of opposition. The enemy “prevents us” from superficiality, yes, but at a price: when salvation comes from hostility, we risk confusing depth with perpetual combat.
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