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Parenting & Family Quote by Dave Eggers

"Some of these kids just don't plain know how good they are: how smart and how much they have to say. You can tell them. You can shine that light on them, one human interaction at a time"

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Dave Eggers points to a quiet deficit that is far more corrosive than a lack of resources: many young people cannot see their own brilliance until someone names it for them. The phrasing is plain and urgent, almost conversational, underscoring how common the problem is and how simple, human gestures begin to solve it. He is not romanticizing youth; he is correcting a failure of mirrors. Without adults who reflect back ability, curiosity, and voice, children internalize the smaller stories told about them.

Eggers has built much of his literary and civic work on this premise. Through 826 Valencia and its sister centers, he created whimsical storefronts that lead into serious writing labs, places where one-on-one attention turns self-doubt into competence. The method is embedded in the line about shining a light: individualized, specific, and relational. A volunteer leaning over a draft, asking a sincere question, offering a concrete suggestion, celebrating a sharp sentence; these are small acts that accumulate into identity. Expectation and attention change outcomes. When someone trustworthy says, You are smart, and here is why, the claim becomes believable.

The metaphor of light matters. It implies that the worth already exists; adults are not installing greatness but revealing it. That keeps power dynamics honest and preserves a young person’s agency. It also pushes beyond generic praise. Real illumination involves listening, naming strengths, and challenging students to go further. The result is not flattery but confidence matched to craft.

Finally, the cadence of one human interaction at a time rejects savior narratives and policy-only fixes. Systems matter, but they are lived through encounters: a teacher’s comment, a mentor’s text, a neighbor’s patient question. The invitation is democratic. Anyone can choose to be that mirror, that flashlight, for someone nearby. Multiply that choice across a school, a block, a city, and untold potential comes into view.

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Dave Eggers

Dave Eggers (born January 8, 1970) is a Writer from USA.

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