"Every intense desire is perhaps a desire to be different from what we are"
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The subtext is that desire is rarely about the object. It’s about the self you imagine on the other side of it. Love becomes a bid for a new identity (“chosen,” “worthy,” “safe”). Ambition becomes an escape hatch from ordinariness. Even virtue can be a makeover: the moral high ground as a way to stop being who you’re afraid you are. By framing desire as a wish “to be different,” Hoffer turns intensity into evidence - not of passion’s nobility, but of dissatisfaction.
Context matters: Hoffer is the thinker of mass movements and the malleable self, the guy who saw how personal emptiness can get converted into collective certainty. Read that way, the sentence doubles as a warning label. When a desire feels absolute, it may be less a compass than a confession. The real question isn’t “What do I want?” but “Who am I trying not to be?”
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Hoffer, Eric. (2026, January 17). Every intense desire is perhaps a desire to be different from what we are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-intense-desire-is-perhaps-a-desire-to-be-31080/
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Hoffer, Eric. "Every intense desire is perhaps a desire to be different from what we are." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-intense-desire-is-perhaps-a-desire-to-be-31080/.
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"Every intense desire is perhaps a desire to be different from what we are." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-intense-desire-is-perhaps-a-desire-to-be-31080/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.














