"The act of longing for something will always be more intense than the requiting of it"
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“Will always” is the dare here. Godwin isn’t making room for the rare, transcendent requital; she’s naming a pattern that feels almost structural. Longing is pure narrative: it thrives on projection, on the clean architecture of “if only.” Requiting is logistical. It introduces reality’s unromantic inventory - compromises, routines, the other person’s full interior life. Desire, left unanswered, can stay perfect because it stays unfinished. Completion is a form of editing, and editing always cuts intensity.
The subtext carries a small warning disguised as insight: if you chase intensity as proof of authenticity, you may end up addicted to wanting rather than living. Godwin, a novelist attentive to the way people author their own heartbreak, is pointing to longing as a creative act - the self as storyteller, casting an object (a lover, a career, a self-image) as the missing piece. Requital ends the story; longing keeps it narratable. That’s why it burns hotter. It has no ceiling.
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| Topic | Heartbreak |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Godwin, Gail. (2026, January 15). The act of longing for something will always be more intense than the requiting of it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-act-of-longing-for-something-will-always-be-133477/
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Godwin, Gail. "The act of longing for something will always be more intense than the requiting of it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-act-of-longing-for-something-will-always-be-133477/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"The act of longing for something will always be more intense than the requiting of it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/the-act-of-longing-for-something-will-always-be-133477/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.












