"He who attends to his greater self becomes a great man, and he who attends to his smaller self becomes a small man"
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The line works because it smuggles a public theory of leadership into a private psychology. Mencius isn’t merely advising individuals to meditate. He’s speaking into a Warring States world where rulers justified brutality as “realism.” His claim: the difference between a humane king and a tyrant isn’t strategy; it’s attention. What you consistently feed becomes you, and what you become sets the temperature for everyone under your power.
There’s also a subtle rebuke to fatalism. Greatness isn’t reserved for noble birth or military genius; it’s a daily allocation of care. The insult is implicit: if you’re small, you chose smallness, one indulgence at a time.
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Mencius. "He who attends to his greater self becomes a great man, and he who attends to his smaller self becomes a small man." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-attends-to-his-greater-self-becomes-a-156/.
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"He who attends to his greater self becomes a great man, and he who attends to his smaller self becomes a small man." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/he-who-attends-to-his-greater-self-becomes-a-156/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.














