"I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect"
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The subtext is blunt: oppression works best when it recruits the oppressed to do the work internally. Racism and sexism do not merely exclude; they train you to doubt your own worth, to negotiate your presence, to mistake endurance for dignity. Jordan counters that with a radical, unsentimental definition of self-love. It is not self-esteem in the therapeutic sense. It is a political technology, something you do "as though my very life depends upon" it because, in her America, it often does.
Context sharpens the force. Jordan wrote out of Black feminist and queer-aligned movements where mainstream feminism routinely centered white women, and civil rights rhetoric often sidelined gender. By yoking Blackness and feminism, she refuses the demand to choose which part of herself is "the real issue". The line reads like a survival manual and a critique: any liberation project that doesn't require self-respect from its members is already conceding ground.
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Jordan, June. (2026, January 16). I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/
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Jordan, June. "I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I am a feminist, and what that means to me is much the same as the meaning of the fact that I am Black: it means that I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-am-a-feminist-and-what-that-means-to-me-is-much-117813/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.






