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Motherhood Quote by Christopher Meloni

"I had no expectations about fatherhood, really, but it's definitely a journey I'm glad to be taking. Number one, it's a great learning experience. When my mother told me it's a 24/7 job, she wasn't kidding"

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Meloni’s line lands because it refuses the usual celebrity-father script: no tidy epiphany, no grand moral, just the blunt admission that he went in without a narrative and got one anyway. “I had no expectations” reads like a small act of honesty in a culture that pressures men to perform competence, especially around parenting. The subtext is that fatherhood isn’t a switch you flip into “dad mode”; it’s an identity you build in real time, often while feeling underqualified.

Calling it a “journey” could have slid into cliché, but he undercuts that softness with the practical punch of “24/7 job.” That phrase is doing double duty. It signals humility (you don’t get to clock out) and it quietly rebukes older norms where fatherhood was treated as optional overtime while mothers handled the continuous labor. The credit he gives his mother matters, too: she becomes the authority figure, the one who told the truth before he was ready to hear it. It frames parenting knowledge as intergenerational and, pointedly, matrilineal.

Context-wise, this is a working actor speaking from inside a profession built on irregular hours and public personas. The candor implies an awareness that parenting competes with career, not just emotionally but logistically. “She wasn’t kidding” is the kicker: it’s funny, self-deprecating, and slightly chastened. The intent isn’t to sound profound; it’s to sound awake. That’s why it works.

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Meloni, Christopher. (2026, January 15). I had no expectations about fatherhood, really, but it's definitely a journey I'm glad to be taking. Number one, it's a great learning experience. When my mother told me it's a 24/7 job, she wasn't kidding. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-expectations-about-fatherhood-really-but-142387/

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Meloni, Christopher. "I had no expectations about fatherhood, really, but it's definitely a journey I'm glad to be taking. Number one, it's a great learning experience. When my mother told me it's a 24/7 job, she wasn't kidding." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-expectations-about-fatherhood-really-but-142387/.

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"I had no expectations about fatherhood, really, but it's definitely a journey I'm glad to be taking. Number one, it's a great learning experience. When my mother told me it's a 24/7 job, she wasn't kidding." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-had-no-expectations-about-fatherhood-really-but-142387/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Christopher Meloni (born April 2, 1961) is a Actor from USA.

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