"I prefer highs and lows to an even keel. Moderation is never something I've been good at"
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The second sentence punctures any hint of romance. “Moderation is never something I’ve been good at” is a confession delivered like a shrug, the classic comic move of pre-empting judgment. She names the problem before anyone else can, which converts vulnerability into control. The subtext isn’t “I’m proudly chaotic,” it’s “I know exactly how I’m seen, and I’m going to narrate it first.”
Context matters: Eclair’s persona has long traded on candor about aging, appetite (for pleasure, for attention, for meaning), and the indignities of self-management. In a culture that packages “balance” as both wellness and virtue, her preference for extremes reads as counter-programming. It’s funny because it’s a little reckless, and it lands because it’s a little true: the promise of moderation often hides a demand to be less - less loud, less needy, less alive. Eclair doesn’t pretend that’s aspirational. She admits it’s her operating system, and makes the lack of a safety rail part of the joke.
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Eclair, Jenny. (n.d.). I prefer highs and lows to an even keel. Moderation is never something I've been good at. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-highs-and-lows-to-an-even-keel-158620/
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Eclair, Jenny. "I prefer highs and lows to an even keel. Moderation is never something I've been good at." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-highs-and-lows-to-an-even-keel-158620/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"I prefer highs and lows to an even keel. Moderation is never something I've been good at." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/i-prefer-highs-and-lows-to-an-even-keel-158620/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.







