"I suppose society is wonderfully delightful. To be in it is merely a bore. But to be out of it is simply a tragedy"
- Oscar Wilde
About this Quote
This quote is from Oscar Wilde's play "Lady Windermere's Fan," which explores the motifs of social class, principles, and also reputation in Victorian society. The character who says this line, Lord Darlington, is rich, captivating, as well as well-connected, but likewise negative and seasoned concerning the social elite he comes from. He recommends that society can be pleasurable at times, but inevitably, it can end up being boring as well as aggravating due to its constraints and expectations. Nonetheless, he additionally implies that being excluded from society, whether voluntarily or scenario, can result in sensations of seclusion, isolation, and also misery. Lord Darlington's mindset is reflective of Wilde's own sights on the frivolity and also hypocrisies of Victorian culture, along with the dangers of being an outsider in such a rigidly stratified globe.
"Having soon discovered to be great, I must appear so, and therefore studiously avoided mixing in society, and wrapped myself in mystery, devoting my time to fasting and prayer"
"Without culture, and the relative freedom it implies, society, even when perfect, is but a jungle. This is why any authentic creation is a gift to the future"