"Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children"
About this Quote
The intent is culturally legible in Thackeray’s era, when domestic life was treated as the moral engine of society and the ideal mother doubled as household priest. By putting “God” in the same breath as “Mother,” Thackeray taps into a sentimental economy his readers would recognize: the mother as the first authority, the first refuge, the first unconditional love a child can name. It’s also a rhetorical shortcut that makes virtue feel intimate instead of abstract.
The subtext is sharper than the sweetness suggests. If “Mother” is a child’s God-name, then faith begins not in church but in the nursery - and that implies both the power and the burden placed on women. The line quietly naturalizes maternal self-sacrifice as sacred duty, turning a social expectation into spiritual inevitability. It’s praise, but it’s also pressure.
Context matters: Thackeray, often skeptical about social pretenses, knew how societies dress norms in holiness. This sentence works because it’s simultaneously tender and strategic, elevating an everyday relationship into the highest register of meaning - and, in doing so, revealing how culture manufactures its saints.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mother |
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| Source | Verified source: Vanity Fair (William Makepeace Thackeray, 1848)
Evidence: Oh, thou poor lonely little benighted boy! Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children; and here was one who was worshipping a stone! (Chapter 37, “The Subject Continued”). This line appears in Thackeray’s novel Vanity Fair during the discussion of Rawdon Crawley’s son (Rawdon minor) and his fixation on the objects in his mother’s room. The widely circulated shorter form (“Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children”) is a partial excerpt of this longer sentence. Project Gutenberg’s transcription of Vanity Fair includes the phrase in Chapter 37 and dates the completed book text to June 28, 1848 (on the text’s front matter). Other candidates (1) The works of William Makepeace Thackeray, with biogr. int... (William Makepeace Thackeray, 1898) compilation95.0% William Makepeace Thackeray Anne Thackeray Ritchie, lady Anne Isabella Ritchie. brown holland was good enough ... Mot... |
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